Until recently, I’d never heard of Demi Lovato. I’m a bald middle-aged cantankerous Irishman who stopped buying new music 15 years ago. Lovato is a singer and actress. She came out as non-binary this year and changed her pronouns to they/them.
Lovato took to Twitter to tell you, me and anyone who cares, that it’s OK to mis-gender her, so long as our intentions are good. What a relief. Worrying whether or not I was inadvertently mis-gendering people was keeping me up nights.
She said that she sometimes mis-genders herself. Try and get your head around that one. She told us that it’s important that we keep trying to respect her truth.
She went on to say that she’s grateful for our effort in trying to remember what means so much to her healing process. Answers on a postcard as to whatever the hell that means.
Lovato isn’t non-binary. There is no such thing. She’s a megalomaniac who’s possibly suffering from acute narcissistic personality disorder. This non-binary bollox is steeped in attention seeking.
But I don’t blame her. I blame society for enabling her and the rest of these muppets. Just look at the Wikipedia entry for Lovato. It says:
They earned a Grammy nomination for “confident.”
They published a book called “Staying strong.”
What the hell? They is plural! They is a group of two or more people.
If you are born with ovaries and breasts, you are a woman and therefore female, no matter what you feel you are. That’s an immutable truth and it’s also why people like Lovato incessantly demand validation from the rest of us.
If it was real, if non-binary was actually a thing, she wouldn’t need the rest of us to drop what we are doing and say “Yes Demi, I believe you. You are non-binary.”
You know the worst of it? Rome is burning and The Titanic is sinking while people like Lovato are playing the fiddle and rearranging the deck chairs. Governments are forcing dangerous medicines disguised as vaccines on our children.
They’re rolling-out vaccine passports. The Nazi’s would have nodded approvingly. They’re planning to introduce climate lockdowns. They’re effectively turning the planet into a prison.
There was a time when our musicians would be screaming bloody murder and leading the opposition to it. Not now. These days they’re more likely to lecture us on the correct use of pronouns. Fuck me.
I felt the need to post this because I often find that the change in pronouns can be confusing for some, and difficult to remember for others. It’s all about your intention. It’s important to me that you try, but if you make a mistake, it’s okay 😊🙏🏼💞 pic.twitter.com/nd37qvMGqk
— Demi Lovato (@ddlovato) July 13, 2021